What do women really want?

What do women really want?

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The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?

Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.?

Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.?

You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.?

But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.?
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What do women really want?

Jim is a very good man not just in looks but also in character. He is a typical example of a good husband. The kind of man that ensures the total well being of his wife and children. He simply lived for his family and would stop at nothing to keep them happy and satisfied.


He is every woman's fantasy, his wife receives even before she asks and he shows  and showers her with love, affection and nice  gifts.


Jim has a successful business in the oil and gas servicing sector which allows him to be generous to all and sundry moreso  his wife. She has a garage with different beautiful vehicles at her disposal, a personal driver and personal assistant all at her beck and call.  Her husband simply provides everything for her and even placed her on a juicy salary.


All that Jim requires from his extremely beautiful wife Uchendu was just to stay pretty and care for their lovely children.  One would think that any woman would be satisfied with such luxury but not Jim's wife; she wanted more than just to sit at home and be happy. What do women really want?



Twelve years into their happy marriage, noticing that his wife had become short tempered and easily agitated and sensing that she was unhappy Jim had a talk with Uchendu where she expressed her desire to do more with her life.


They both decided that Uchendu would have to go bsck to school to upgrade her certificate on Midwifery. Her choice  destination was the United Kingdom and this was the beginning of their problems.

Applications sorted and school fees paid,  off to the U.K. went Uchendu leaving her beautiful life and family behind. She was surprised at how quickly she adjusted to the life of a student. Of course she had a lovely flat, Jim travelled himself to put in  place everything that his wife needed to be comfortable .


Jim spoke to his wife several times every day but gradually the calls started to reduce. Jim noticed that it was him who called her more. It used to be the other way round. And then it got to the voice mail stage where he would leave a message and then wait up to two days before Uchendu returned his call. Even the FaceTime stopped happening.


Jim was greatly troubled. He knew that there was a problem and so unannounced, he got on a plane and went to pay his wife a visit.


When he got down from the airport taxi he was filled with excitement, he had missed his wife and all of a sudden all the anger he felt turned to sweet anticipation of what he would do to her as soon as he sets his eyes on her. He would lift her off her feet and kiss her deeply for a long time and right there on the sofa take her away .


He was imagining all sorts and smiling to himself when he started to hear someone screaming. At first he thought it was from a television but on getting closer to the door he realised it was from his wife's flat and it was Uchendu's voice.


She wasn't screaming in pain but pleasure. He gently pulled out the spare key that he almost forgot to take and let himself into the flat. There on the same sofa with her legs spread so widely apart and a stranger on top of her, Uchendu screamed in a way he had never heard her scream.


Jim was not sure what to do but while his wife tried to grab a house coat, he left her with her lover and checked himself into a nearby hotel. He made a quick arrangement and flew with his wife back to Nigeria. As soon as they returned, he took her straight to her parents and did not allow her to see their children.


Uchendu explained that it was eight months into her program that she ran into Michael a childhood friend she had even forgotten about. The last time she saw him they were both below ten years. Michael's family relocated to another town and afterwards to the U.K. In no time the two became good friends and eventually lovers.


When she slept with him the first time, she felt so guilty but after some time it started to feel right and she could swear that she was in love until Jim walked in on them and everything ceased to make sense.



It was already eleven months into her nursing program and Jim said he had planned his vacation towards their wedding anniversary and did not go expecting to see what he saw.  He only wanted to surprise and make his wife happy.



Uchendu has literally been on her knees begging for a second chance but Jim is being adamant to forgiving his wife. His mother-in-law who has been looking after the children since her daughter travelled for her studies has tried to no avail to convince her son-in-law to forgive her daughter.


Uchendu blames herself and the devil for everything and is so ashamed of herself and says she is still in love with her husband and needs an advice on what to do. She had tabled the matter before the church and the village to help plead with her husband and yet without luck.


Jim in all his love for his sweet beautiful wife says he cannot be appeased for now not even by the Pope himself as he is going through an emotional trauma right now.


Me: This is a difficult one. I pray everything works out for them again for the sake of God and the innocent children who could be stigmatized later in life.

The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?

You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend?

The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only:

His girlfriend.

You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?

You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.

It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…

How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.
You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.

But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.

The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.

So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs.

“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”
You nod eagerly.

She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”

You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”
“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”
“Okay, then listen closely…”

Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.

It’s not their fault. They’re just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.)

If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.

It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…

It’s dead wrong.

That woman?

She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)

But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.

She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…

But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.

The truth is this:

Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.

When a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her.

He can’t help it.

Most women don’t have that effect on him.

When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.

He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.
And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.

So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?

It sounds kind of silly.

Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?

No. It’s a lot simpler than that.

To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:

You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.

Did he offer to get you a drink?

Thank him.

Did he clear the dishes off the table?

Thank him.

Did he drive you to a meeting?

Thank him.

He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.

Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?

Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board.

Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.

We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.

But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.

Now, that’s not how most people think.

Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him.
They’ve got it backwards.

The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.

It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”