WHAT DO MEN AND WOMEN REALLY WANT? ~ PUBLISHED IN A GROUP OF NEWSPAPERS
The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?
Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.?
Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.?
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.?
But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.?
There are differences between the way men and women look at things. Some show up in our likes and dislikes.
I don’t believe I’ve seen too many women sitting alone at a Dunkin Donuts. Starbucks, yes. On the other hand I can’t remember seeing many men eating by themselves at Panera’s
I’m always surprised when I hear about new trends that get me thinking as to what men and women really want. I had always presumed the point of marriage or being with someone meant just that. Being with someone. Anyway according to what I’m now reading. I was wrong.
Married women are putting up sheds in their back yards. She Sheds. More like mini homes. Why?
Home Depot and Lowes are on top of it. Their ads cry out, “How to get away from it all in your own backyard!”
And who is the all?
These sheds are not cheap and they are getting furnished with girlie stuff. It’s very clear that most guys will not feel comfortable in these sheds. If in fact they were welcome, which they are not.
There is currently much copy coming out on She Sheds. There are magazine articles and even books on how to furnish them. Ideas such as returning to what you enjoyed doing as a child are plentiful. If you could see into these sheds you are apt to see women jumping rope or just sitting with multiple crayons and coloring books. What you won’t see is dishwashers, mops and scrub brushes.
You will see chocolate, a mountain of chocolate. And what goes better with chocolate in a She Shed than a mountain of books? Pillows will be scattered everywhere. Candles will be glowing.
Just the word shed says a lot.
Men on the other hand have caves. They are called man caves. The definition of cave is usually a large underground chamber. These caves are not likely to be underground. They are likely to have a pool table, a dart board a huge television screen and a bar with stools. Caves frequently have a dank aroma.
If the guys decide, like the women did, to bring back some of their youth, a password will be needed to enter these chambers. It won’t be open sesame. One Man Cave used the following password: Ndu$$$$$46Letmein. Attached was a warning: if forgotten, there will be no new password issued! You will not gain entrance to this Cave! FORGET YOUR PASSWORD, FORGET ABOUT US!
Small refrigerators harboring beer, cheese, and salami is a prerequisite. There will not be any chocolate, or candles, maybe one pillow. After visiting a few of these caves, I noted golf putting greens in at least two of them. One of them had a voice shouting compliments. Whenever the golf ball kerpluncked into the cup, I overheard, “That was a hole in one! You are truly one of the great putters!”
Is this what men and women really want?
The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only:
His girlfriend.
You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?
You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.
It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…
How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.
You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.
But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.
The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.
So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs.
“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”
You nod eagerly.
She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”
You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”
“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”
“Okay, then listen closely…”
If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.
It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…
It’s dead wrong.
That woman?
She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)
But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.
She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…
But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.
The truth is this:
He can’t help it.
Most women don’t have that effect on him.
When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.
He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.
And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.
So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?
It sounds kind of silly.
Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?
No. It’s a lot simpler than that.
To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:
Thank him.
Did he clear the dishes off the table?
Thank him.
Did he drive you to a meeting?
Thank him.
He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.
Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?
Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board.
Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.
We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.
Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him.
They’ve got it backwards.
The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.
It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”
Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.?
Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.?
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.?
But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.?
WHAT DO MEN AND WOMEN REALLY WANT? ~ PUBLISHED IN A GROUP OF NEWSPAPERS
A cartoon shows a husband saying to his wife, “Can you think of a better way to celebrate our anniversary than watching the World Series?” Interesting question for a man to ask his wife, though it’s doubtful she thought it interesting.There are differences between the way men and women look at things. Some show up in our likes and dislikes.
I don’t believe I’ve seen too many women sitting alone at a Dunkin Donuts. Starbucks, yes. On the other hand I can’t remember seeing many men eating by themselves at Panera’s
I’m always surprised when I hear about new trends that get me thinking as to what men and women really want. I had always presumed the point of marriage or being with someone meant just that. Being with someone. Anyway according to what I’m now reading. I was wrong.
Married women are putting up sheds in their back yards. She Sheds. More like mini homes. Why?
Home Depot and Lowes are on top of it. Their ads cry out, “How to get away from it all in your own backyard!”
And who is the all?
These sheds are not cheap and they are getting furnished with girlie stuff. It’s very clear that most guys will not feel comfortable in these sheds. If in fact they were welcome, which they are not.
There is currently much copy coming out on She Sheds. There are magazine articles and even books on how to furnish them. Ideas such as returning to what you enjoyed doing as a child are plentiful. If you could see into these sheds you are apt to see women jumping rope or just sitting with multiple crayons and coloring books. What you won’t see is dishwashers, mops and scrub brushes.
You will see chocolate, a mountain of chocolate. And what goes better with chocolate in a She Shed than a mountain of books? Pillows will be scattered everywhere. Candles will be glowing.
Just the word shed says a lot.
Men on the other hand have caves. They are called man caves. The definition of cave is usually a large underground chamber. These caves are not likely to be underground. They are likely to have a pool table, a dart board a huge television screen and a bar with stools. Caves frequently have a dank aroma.
If the guys decide, like the women did, to bring back some of their youth, a password will be needed to enter these chambers. It won’t be open sesame. One Man Cave used the following password: Ndu$$$$$46Letmein. Attached was a warning: if forgotten, there will be no new password issued! You will not gain entrance to this Cave! FORGET YOUR PASSWORD, FORGET ABOUT US!
Small refrigerators harboring beer, cheese, and salami is a prerequisite. There will not be any chocolate, or candles, maybe one pillow. After visiting a few of these caves, I noted golf putting greens in at least two of them. One of them had a voice shouting compliments. Whenever the golf ball kerpluncked into the cup, I overheard, “That was a hole in one! You are truly one of the great putters!”
Is this what men and women really want?
The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?
You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend?The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only:
His girlfriend.
You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?
You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.
It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…
How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.
You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.
But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.
The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.
So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs.
“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”
You nod eagerly.
She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”
You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”
“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”
“Okay, then listen closely…”
Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.
It’s not their fault. They’re just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.)If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.
It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…
It’s dead wrong.
That woman?
She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)
But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.
She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…
But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.
The truth is this:
Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.
When a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her.He can’t help it.
Most women don’t have that effect on him.
When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.
He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.
And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.
So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?
It sounds kind of silly.
Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?
No. It’s a lot simpler than that.
To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.
Did he offer to get you a drink?Thank him.
Did he clear the dishes off the table?
Thank him.
Did he drive you to a meeting?
Thank him.
He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.
Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?
Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board.
Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.
We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.
But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.
Now, that’s not how most people think.Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him.
They’ve got it backwards.
The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.
It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”
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