The Girlfriend That Every Man Wants
The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?
Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.?
Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.?
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.?
But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.?
Gorgeous looks and stylish appearances do make a girlfriend more desirable. But a man will grow out of that obsession soon enough. As a boyfriend, he needs his partner to have certain traits that would make her more adorable and command respect for herself.
1. A Girl with an Identity that is anything but, “His Girlfriend”
Men hold high regards and respect for a woman who can stay independent, work for herself and have a company of her own. He will think twice or even thrice before he can let such a gem of a person go away for it makes him the loser in the end. It makes his life easy too because he doesn’t have to attend to someone constantly.
2. A Girlfriend with a Friendly & Social Nature
It’s a treat for a guy when his girlfriend gets along with his family and friends. He has such comfort of mind when she fits into his social groups and when his folks truly enjoy her company. In return of making his folks happy, he values his girlfriend more and reciprocates with more love.
3. A Mate with A High Sex Drive
A girlfriend who initiates sex herself makes her more desirable to her man. Whether she offers to please him wildly or sweetly, he wishes to return the favor back in more than one way. A girlfriend with a high sex drive makes her man feel that his adventure with her is never boring and he dreams to explore more and more adventures with her.
4. A Girl who takes care of her Appearance & Fitness
A man would love to flaunt the woman he is with when he moves out with her. Taking care of your appearance, carrying yourself well in public and keeping fit keeps your man interested in you forever. It reassures him that if you can take care of yourself, you can take care of his family. Everything apart, staying beautiful makes you more confident and takes you into a high life condition. That itself heightens your ability to keep your man happy!
5. A Partner who is Smart
Being dumb is cute at times, but doesn’t take you too far. A girlfriend who can express her opinions and have stimulating conversations gives the relationship an echo; else it’s always the guy trying too hard. If you use your wit to surprise him on occasions, he’ll love you for that. Moreover, if your guy feels that he can discuss life and issues with his girl, he subconsciously considers you to be his closest buddy!
6. A Girlfriend who “Shows” she Cares for him
Men want you to “show” that you care for them. That doesn’t mean you need to stand by him only when he has had a catastrophe in his life. Basically, your gestures that surprise him with things of his choice and the ones that make his life easy are the ones which actively show that you care. Note these little things in your boyfriend’s life and do them for him.
7. A Girl who stops being a Typical Girlfriend
A typical girlfriend is constantly insecure, keeps nagging him when he is out, keeps cribbing about little issues and always gets late dressing up. Such pressure makes all men develop a serious distaste for such a woman. For a change, keep off your insecurities and check out women with him for fun. Let him have his boys’ night out. Get ready before him at times when you go out. Most of all stop cribbing and whining in daily life if you do! Trust me, he’ll fall in love with you over and over again!
8. A Girlfriend who understands her Boyfriend is a Man
Every girlfriend must realize that men and women are different. You can’t take a man out to for a day long shopping spree or expect him to understand that some color is mauve. On the other hand, you can’t expect him to cuddle with you at home when all his friends are watching the World Cup Finals! At times, he may crack stupid jokes, but as a man he’d feel proud if you shared a laugh. And in times of uncertainty, allow him to take the decision and respect it. A girlfriend who lets her boyfriend be a man can herself demand to be woman when she wants to!
If you are already in a relationship, you will start seeing within a couple of weeks how your boyfriend/husband starts responding more lovingly towards you. If you are dating someone, he’ll dream of growing old with you. My bet is he’ll share with his buddies how amazing you are and that will make you the girlfriend that every man wants!
The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only:
His girlfriend.
You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?
You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.
It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…
How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.
You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.
But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.
The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.
So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs.
“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”
You nod eagerly.
She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”
You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”
“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”
“Okay, then listen closely…”
If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.
It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…
It’s dead wrong.
That woman?
She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)
But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.
She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…
But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.
The truth is this:
He can’t help it.
Most women don’t have that effect on him.
When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.
He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.
And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.
So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?
It sounds kind of silly.
Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?
No. It’s a lot simpler than that.
To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:
Thank him.
Did he clear the dishes off the table?
Thank him.
Did he drive you to a meeting?
Thank him.
He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.
Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?
Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board.
Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.
We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.
Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him.
They’ve got it backwards.
The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.
It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”
Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.?
Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.?
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.?
But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.?
The Girlfriend That Every Man Wants
A popular New York based relationship magazine recently published an editorial on what makes a certain category of girlfriends more desirable to their men. A topic well studied, researched and surveyed by noted columnist Dr. Mark Montero, he brings out simplistic details that most girls and women can follow. As a woman, I can vouch for his guidance on being the girlfriend that every man wants.Gorgeous looks and stylish appearances do make a girlfriend more desirable. But a man will grow out of that obsession soon enough. As a boyfriend, he needs his partner to have certain traits that would make her more adorable and command respect for herself.
1. A Girl with an Identity that is anything but, “His Girlfriend”
Men hold high regards and respect for a woman who can stay independent, work for herself and have a company of her own. He will think twice or even thrice before he can let such a gem of a person go away for it makes him the loser in the end. It makes his life easy too because he doesn’t have to attend to someone constantly.
2. A Girlfriend with a Friendly & Social Nature
It’s a treat for a guy when his girlfriend gets along with his family and friends. He has such comfort of mind when she fits into his social groups and when his folks truly enjoy her company. In return of making his folks happy, he values his girlfriend more and reciprocates with more love.
3. A Mate with A High Sex Drive
A girlfriend who initiates sex herself makes her more desirable to her man. Whether she offers to please him wildly or sweetly, he wishes to return the favor back in more than one way. A girlfriend with a high sex drive makes her man feel that his adventure with her is never boring and he dreams to explore more and more adventures with her.
4. A Girl who takes care of her Appearance & Fitness
A man would love to flaunt the woman he is with when he moves out with her. Taking care of your appearance, carrying yourself well in public and keeping fit keeps your man interested in you forever. It reassures him that if you can take care of yourself, you can take care of his family. Everything apart, staying beautiful makes you more confident and takes you into a high life condition. That itself heightens your ability to keep your man happy!
5. A Partner who is Smart
Being dumb is cute at times, but doesn’t take you too far. A girlfriend who can express her opinions and have stimulating conversations gives the relationship an echo; else it’s always the guy trying too hard. If you use your wit to surprise him on occasions, he’ll love you for that. Moreover, if your guy feels that he can discuss life and issues with his girl, he subconsciously considers you to be his closest buddy!
6. A Girlfriend who “Shows” she Cares for him
Men want you to “show” that you care for them. That doesn’t mean you need to stand by him only when he has had a catastrophe in his life. Basically, your gestures that surprise him with things of his choice and the ones that make his life easy are the ones which actively show that you care. Note these little things in your boyfriend’s life and do them for him.
7. A Girl who stops being a Typical Girlfriend
A typical girlfriend is constantly insecure, keeps nagging him when he is out, keeps cribbing about little issues and always gets late dressing up. Such pressure makes all men develop a serious distaste for such a woman. For a change, keep off your insecurities and check out women with him for fun. Let him have his boys’ night out. Get ready before him at times when you go out. Most of all stop cribbing and whining in daily life if you do! Trust me, he’ll fall in love with you over and over again!
8. A Girlfriend who understands her Boyfriend is a Man
Every girlfriend must realize that men and women are different. You can’t take a man out to for a day long shopping spree or expect him to understand that some color is mauve. On the other hand, you can’t expect him to cuddle with you at home when all his friends are watching the World Cup Finals! At times, he may crack stupid jokes, but as a man he’d feel proud if you shared a laugh. And in times of uncertainty, allow him to take the decision and respect it. A girlfriend who lets her boyfriend be a man can herself demand to be woman when she wants to!
If you are already in a relationship, you will start seeing within a couple of weeks how your boyfriend/husband starts responding more lovingly towards you. If you are dating someone, he’ll dream of growing old with you. My bet is he’ll share with his buddies how amazing you are and that will make you the girlfriend that every man wants!
The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?
You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend?The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only:
His girlfriend.
You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?
You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.
It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…
How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.
You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.
But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.
The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.
So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs.
“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”
You nod eagerly.
She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”
You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”
“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”
“Okay, then listen closely…”
Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.
It’s not their fault. They’re just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.)If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.
It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…
It’s dead wrong.
That woman?
She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)
But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.
She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…
But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.
The truth is this:
Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.
When a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her.He can’t help it.
Most women don’t have that effect on him.
When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.
He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.
And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.
So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?
It sounds kind of silly.
Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?
No. It’s a lot simpler than that.
To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.
Did he offer to get you a drink?Thank him.
Did he clear the dishes off the table?
Thank him.
Did he drive you to a meeting?
Thank him.
He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.
Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?
Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board.
Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.
We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.
But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.
Now, that’s not how most people think.Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him.
They’ve got it backwards.
The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.
It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”
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