Sex Secrets Men Really Want You to Know

Sex Secrets Men Really Want You to Know

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The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?

Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.?

Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.?

You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.?

But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.?
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Sex Secrets Men Really Want You to Know

We got guys to open up and spill a few things they’d never say to a girl’s face. What they shared will make sex better for both of you.

1. Guys like it rough sometimes.

John, 24, from Los Angeles says he gets hot when girls get grabby. “I like it when they pull my hair!” he admits. Tugging on a fistful of curls makes guys feel like you’re really into it. No need to pretend, but if the feeling strikes, go ahead: Run your fingers through his hair and give it a pull.

2. Yep, your guy does want to try anal.

“Most dudes want to have anal,” admits Alex, 21, from Chicago. “And if they don’t ask for it it’s because they haven’t had it yet. They probably want to try it.” So if you’re interested too, but your boyfriend hasn’t made mention of that end of the spectrum, feel free to bring it up. He’ll probably thank you.

3. Guys really do wonder if it’s too small.

You’d think that penis-size worries would end once a guy starts to use his regularly, but it’s not always so, says Dan, 20, from Kansas City, Mo. “The only things a guy likes to have stroked as much as his penis is his ego,” he says. “Tell him he’s ‘so good’ or that what he is doing is ‘amazing’ or the ‘best you’ve ever had.’ And, regardless of whether or not your guy’s penis is huge or tiny, please make sure he knows you think it is, like, the biggest you’ve ever seen.”

4. Men love it when you love your body.

Bryan, 32, from Hoboken, N.J., says a girl he dated for six months always kept her bra on in the bedroom—not because it was lacy and pretty, but because he suspects she didn’t like her breasts. “It took a lot of the fun out of it,” he says. “It made me feel like not only was she insecure, but she was also uncomfortable being real with me.” In the heat of the moment, the last thing a guy is likely to notice is your body flaws—so ignore them. Men do!

5. He wants to look hot for you


It might seem like all guys do to get ready for a date or a sexy night in is hop into the shower and maybe, if you’re lucky, swipe on some good-smelling deodorant. But, be assured, they take some care—and they love it when you notice. “Everyone knows girls love compliments, but guys also appreciate them,” says Brian, 21, from Boulder, Colo. “A little ‘you look good tonight’ or ‘I like that shirt’ can go a long way and get us even more in the mood.”

6. Comfy can be sexy.

Sure, little lacy things are hot, but believe it or not, even your most comfortable cotton briefs can be enough to get guys interested. John, 34, from Chicago, says he really enjoys seeing his wife run around the bedroom in a pair of full-coverage heather-gray undies. “Cotton panties and a T-shirt is just as sexy as lingerie, just in a simpler way,” he says.

7. Men love it when you text an unexpected pic—even if you’re fully clothed.

“We’re a generation of self-photographers,” says Matt, 24, from Minneapolis. “Don’t be afraid to send a picture out of the blue. Even if your hair doesn’t look phenomenal.”

8. He wants (no, needs) to know you want him.

If you haven’t realized it by now, here’s a news flash: Guys can be a little sensitive and insecure about sex. “When your boyfriend or husband hints at sex, and you don’t give him at least some indication that you want it and like it too, you crush him,” says Chris, 20 from Memphis, Tenn. “Guys want to know that they turn you on.” So if you’re not in the mood, make it clear that it’s not personal.

9. What guys want most in bed is confidence.

Josh, 20, of Parker, Colo., says he just doesn’t see the point of being timid or shy in bed: “We are both there to have fun! Be loud, have fun and relax, and if you want to try something, speak up. Guys are always up for trying something new. Of all the situations to voice your opinion, why not between the sheets?” Makes sense to us!

The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…To Unlock His Undying Devotion?

You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend?

The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only:

His girlfriend.

You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?

You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.

It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…

How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.
You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.

But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.

The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.

So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs.

“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”
You nod eagerly.

She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”

You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”
“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”
“Okay, then listen closely…”

Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.

It’s not their fault. They’re just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.)

If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.

It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…

It’s dead wrong.

That woman?

She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)

But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.

She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…

But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.

The truth is this:

Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.

When a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her.

He can’t help it.

Most women don’t have that effect on him.

When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.

He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.
And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.

So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?

It sounds kind of silly.

Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?

No. It’s a lot simpler than that.

To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:

You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.

Did he offer to get you a drink?

Thank him.

Did he clear the dishes off the table?

Thank him.

Did he drive you to a meeting?

Thank him.

He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.

Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?

Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board.

Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.

We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.

But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.

Now, that’s not how most people think.

Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him.
They’ve got it backwards.

The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.

It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”